shoot / kill / blame the messenger

/ʃˈuːt kˈɪl blˈeɪm ðə mˈɛsɪndʒə/

/ʃˈuːt kˈɪl blˈeɪm ðə mˈɛsɪndʒɚ/

[phrase]

to shoot / kill / blame the messenger

[PHRASE]

to put the blame on the person who brings bad news and assume they are responsible for it

What is the origin of the idiom "make a go of something" and when to use it?

The idiom "shoot the messenger" has its origins in ancient historical events and military practices. In times of war, couriers or messengers were crucial for communication between different armies or regions. When a messenger delivered bad news or conveyed unwelcome orders, it was not uncommon for the recipient, who might be angered or upset by the message, to react impulsively and violently by attacking or even killing the messenger. This practice, while ruthless, was aimed at venting frustration on the bearer of bad tidings rather than addressing the underlying issues. This expression is commonly used in discussions involving business, politics, personal relationships, and even everyday life.

Examples

1. Don't kill the messenger!

2. But some people want to blame the messenger, as if I were the one who caused the bad news to begin with.

3. Shooting the messenger was now practically a sport, and no-one wanted to be the bearer of bad news.

4. And that might make you mad, but shooting the messenger isn't gonna get you anywhere, and besides, I did warn after all.